Thursday, March 10, 2011

Kairos Moments

It is interesting to me how some words have several different meanings when traced back to their origin. For example, I was recently reminded of the definitions of Time. I've been chewing on this a bit, and I thought I'd share with you all. So, I guess this is me spitting out my cud...

When we think of time most often it takes on a chronological meaning. We set a meeting time. Events take place at a certain time. There are certain amount of hours in the day. Minutes. Seconds. The clock reliably ticks on. The sun rises, sets and begins on the same schedule tomorrow - like clockwork. And taking for granted the faithfulness of it all, we go about our busy lives.


The ancient Greeks had another option for the meaning of time. In addition to chronos, they referred to Kairos time which takes on special significance. Kairos is not just a moment in time but rather an opportunity of time. It is making the most out of the moments of time we are given.

My dear hunting friends, let me illustrate it to you this way... How many of us can remember a moment in time when the opportunity of the shot presented itself, only to slip away leaving you with an arrow securely knocked? (Or for me the arrow buried in a nearby pine tree.) We want that moment back. However, it is gone. Just as quickly as the moment presents itself, it is carried away by the breeze now kissing your face and whispering "you missed it."

The Greek mythological god, Kairos, was described as a god of the "fleeting moment." Cleverly depicted by a long tuft of hair on his forehead proceeded by a smooth bald head, Kairos illustrated the idea of grasping on to a moment the instant it is presented. And as the moment passes, if you don't seize the opportunity there is nothing left to grasp on to.

I think God sprinkles Kairos moments throughout our lives. God waves the conductor baton, smiles and orchestrates an opportunity for his love to shine through us. I suppose these opportunities present themselves daily - if you recognize them. It is offering a smile. Opening a door. Lending a hug. Listening. Crying. Praying.

I know I'm guilty of hurrying through my day - attempting to check off my "to-do list" before the sun sets. The clock seems to laugh at me as I rush to get everything done. However, life is more than checklists and setting your alarm clock to begin again. It is so much more. The Kairos moments make it worth the ride. They are the spice or seasoning to the chronological ticking of the clock.

So, the challenge to both myself and you dear reader is to take advantage of these Kairos moments as they present themselves. When chronos turns to Kairos, will you recognize it? After all, we all have a set time here on this earth, and it's not the dates on the gravestone that define your life. What matters is what you do with the dash in between those dates of time.

9 comments:

  1. Excellent post, Emily! You are exactly right. I think we take our time here for granted too often. No one can beat time and once it's gone, it's gone.

    Very nice!

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  2. Very well said Emily and something that we should all strive to live by! Thanks!

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  3. Emily, thank you for sharing your "cud" with us. :) This is a great post, on a topic that we all need to be reminded of often!

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  4. Great post. This was definitely something I needed to hear today. I am constantly guilt of having a 'to-do' list. My wife can attest. This was very inspirational and perfect for a Friday. Thank you, Emily!

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  5. Beautiful. And, absolutely true. Thanks so much for the reminder, Emily!

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  6. What else is there to say? That was an excellent way to illustrate the concept of "you only go 'round once..."
    I'll absolutely be doing a post linking to this. Matter of fact, right now. It's a great message for everyone. Thanks for writing it, Emily.

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  7. Well said Emily and the very thing I needed to 'hear' this morning. Thank you very, very much.

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  8. You are right on target with this one. This exact thing is a challenge both Dustin and I are trying to tackle. We get so wrapped up in what we have to do, that we often miss moments to just enjoy life...in extraordinary or simple form.

    Fantastic post!

    -stephanie

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  9. I really like this post. I had my eureka moment this year, at the end of duck season. For me, historically, Feb 1 to April 15th is an awful time. I just SCRATCH THE WALLS waiting for something outdoors to start happening.

    This year, I decided to do something different. The day after duck season ended, I made a master list of things to accomplish over the next 10 weeks - around the house, workout-related, and prep-related for spring turkey and spring fishing. Buying gear, organizing gear, cleaning gear, etc. The result of making a conscious effort to use my down time to prepare for more active seasons has been amazing (for me at least). Cleaning guns, sorting lures, stripping old fishing line off of reels. This year, I won't be struggling to do these things at 11pm before I head out at 5am the following morning. I'll be conscious and confident that I set aside time to get them done. It's been pretty cathartic :) Here's where it started:

    http://rivermud.blogspot.com/2011/02/stoicism-starts-here.html

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